I don't have the right answers. I don't know that there _is_ a right answer.
> Whoever labels adult only and does not care is not wishing to put the effort to police that it actually is not.
Or they're unwilling to risk the consequences of making a mistake.
> the fact that I am not allowed to post some stupid adult-looking meme.
But, in my example, you don't lose the ability to post some stupid adult-looking meme. You lose the ability to post ANY meme. Because the risk of someone posting something over the line is that the entire server is suddenly adult only. And for something like a game server, that's can be a catastrophic change; it can destroy the community.
Is being able post memes that important? No, probably not. But giving up the entire ability to do something fun, that doesn't cause any real harm, because someone might do something stupid... and the response to that will be a full nuclear destruction of your community. Yeah, that part sucks.
I don't have the right answers. I don't know that there _is_ a right answer.
> Whoever labels adult only and does not care is not wishing to put the effort to police that it actually is not.
Or they're unwilling to risk the consequences of making a mistake.
> the fact that I am not allowed to post some stupid adult-looking meme.
But, in my example, you don't lose the ability to post some stupid adult-looking meme. You lose the ability to post ANY meme. Because the risk of someone posting something over the line is that the entire server is suddenly adult only. And for something like a game server, that's can be a catastrophic change; it can destroy the community.
Is being able post memes that important? No, probably not. But giving up the entire ability to do something fun, that doesn't cause any real harm, because someone might do something stupid... and the response to that will be a full nuclear destruction of your community. Yeah, that part sucks.