I'm mildly surprised, why isn't this a thing in Haskell? Can't it be easily added, considering an or pattern is trivially expanded to two (or more) patterns?
I've been surprised/annoyed by this as well. My conclusion was that there are no practical problems that would make this hard, and it is most likely held back simply by the theoretical trivialness of it (what academic wants to work on something that doesn't make a good paper?).
As far as I know, that's never really been a reason as to why we haven't implemented it in GHC. It's much more likely just that nobody has ever gotten around to implementing it. Shouldn't be especially hard, I imagine.